Why Young People Hate Their Jobs And How AI (Yes, Really) Might Fix It. AI-And-Personality
- Dora Lesinska
- Jun 18
- 6 min read
It’s not just because they don’t want to work, it’s because work doesn’t work for them!
Let’s set the scene: A 24-year-old digital native lands their “dream job” in marketing. Two weeks later? They’re drowning in slack threads, wondering if they’ll ever do anything meaningful besides scheduling TikToks and pretending to enjoy “wellness webinars”.
Sound familiar?
It’s no surprise that so many Gen Zs and younger millennials feel frustrated at work. And no, it’s not because they can’t budget or don’t have enough ‘grit.’ The real issue? Today’s workplaces and schools are stuck in the past. They were designed for a world that no longer exists, and AI is about to make that even more obvious.
Let’s dive in.

Modern Job versus Modern Mindset
The Modern Job vs The Modern Mindset
Young workers grew up hearing:
“Do what you love!”
“You can be anything!”
“Change the world!”
And then they entered a workforce that said:
“Be available at all times.”
“Here’s your KPI dashboard.”
“We don’t have budget for training.”
Talk about emotional whiplash! The younger workforce today is walking into a system that promised meaning but delivers micromanagement. These are people raised on TED Talks and TikToks, they're purpose-driven, values-led, and psychologically fluent. They’ve read the self-help books and the trauma threads. They know themselves, their triggers, and their ideal working style (Personality Type assessment helps identify true you even further). They set boundaries like pros, question outdated norms without flinching, and treat burnout like the red flag it is.
They’re not just employees, they’re entrepreneurs-in-waiting, brand builders, and systems thinkers. They've got side hustles, Plan Bs, monetised hobbies, and three ChatGPT tabs open, mid-prompt, ready to optimise anything from their cover letter to their career path. They’re not disengaged, they’re disillusioned. And if the modern workplace doesn’t catch up, it won’t just lose their loyalty, it’ll lose their talent entirely.
Enter AI: Disruptor, Liberator, Therapist?
Here’s the twist: AI isn’t just changing the tools we use at work, it’s changing why we show up at all.
When a few lines of code can write better emails, summarise entire meetings, automate admin, and even generate ideas faster than most brainstorms... the old rules start to collapse. Efficiency isn’t rare anymore, it’s standard. Which begs the question most workplaces still avoid:
What’s left for humans to do and why should we care?
Here’s the answer, and it’s a powerful one: to be more human.
Not just “nice-to-have” human but creatively, consciously, courageously human. The kind of human who can lead with empathy, make meaning out of chaos, dream up what doesn’t exist yet, and connect the dots no algorithm can see.
This is where it gets juicy. Because suddenly, the traits we were told were “soft skills”; emotional intelligence, storytelling, curiosity, imagination and resilience become the hard edge that sets us apart. Not just in work, but in leadership, innovation, and impact.
AI strips away the busywork, but it also strips away our excuses. It challenges us to dig deeper, to ask better questions, to create things that are original, useful, and deeply human. It’s not about competing with machines, it’s about becoming more of what machines can’t replicate.
In a world of infinite efficiency, meaning becomes the real currency.
Personality, AI, and the Rise of Meaningful Work
What if AI didn’t just make work faster but made it fit us better?
Imagine a world where we stop forcing every personality into the same open-plan box with beanbags and ping pong tables and instead, we use AI to design work environments that actually align with how we think, feel, and thrive.
Now picture this:
An AI co-pilot that learns your personality type and rhythm giving introverts quiet time to focus without interruption, while offering extroverts dynamic collaboration opportunities when they need a creative boost.
Career pathing tools that don’t just skim your résumé but analyse your cognitive style, energy patterns, and values helping you find roles, teams, and projects that energise rather than drain you. (Hello ENFP-friendly innovation pods and INTJ-friendly strategic deep dives!)
AI coaches that evolve with you, nudging you toward growth edges, reflecting your behavioural blind spots, and helping you develop leadership, self-awareness, and emotional agility based on how you naturally process the world.
This isn’t sci-fi. It’s not a distant future. These tools are already emerging, and fast. From personality-informed productivity apps to AI mentors embedded in learning platforms, we’re entering an era where your personality won’t just be a “nice-to-know” HR file, it’ll be a core input in how your career is designed.
Personality-aware AI is becoming the workplace therapist, life coach, and co-designer of your future. Not to replace the human connection, but to enhance it, to help us understand ourselves and each other more deeply, and build work that actually feels… human.
In a world flooded with tools that can do the what, personality-based AI is helping us rediscover the why, and more importantly, the who behind the work.
What Companies Must Do - As Soon As Possible!
Because the future of work isn’t coming, it’s already knocking (and it brought AI with it).
1. Stop Forcing One-Size-Fits-All Jobs.
AI now makes job personalisation not just possible, but practical. There’s no excuse to keep cramming diverse minds into identical job descriptions or rigid 9-to-5 boxes. Different brains thrive in different ways: some in flowy solo sprints, others in fast-paced group energy.
Companies must start designing roles that flex, roles that adapt to working styles, energy rhythms, and personality preferences. With AI handling the admin, scheduling, and repetitive tasks, we finally have the freedom to build jobs around people, not the other way around.
One size fits all is out. One size fits YOU is the new standard.
2. Blend Personality Science with AI Design.
Most workplace tools still treat employees like data points or productivity bots. But imagine systems that actually understand who’s using them. Tools that respond differently to a deep-thinking INFJ versus a fast-talking ENTP. That’s not fantasy, that’s smart design.
By integrating validated personality frameworks with adaptive AI, we can build digital tools that feel like teammates encouraging strengths, managing blind spots, and nudging growth in ways that feel natural, not scripted.
If AI is the new workplace assistant, make sure it knows your name and your vibe.
3. Empower Young Workers to Co-Create Their Roles.
The next generation doesn’t want to fit into a job, they want to shape one. And why shouldn’t they? If AI can do the grunt work, the repetitive, the rules-based, the soul-sapping then humans should be focusing on the good stuff: solving problems, creating impact, expressing vision.
Give young employees tools to co-design their daily workflow, suggest projects, shift responsibilities, and play to their evolving strengths. Let them own their contribution. The result? More engagement, less burnout, and a workforce that actually wants to stay.
When you treat employees like co-creators, they stop looking for an escape route.
4. Invest in Emotional Tech, Not Just Efficiency Tech.
Sure, speed matters. Automation matters. But let’s be clear: the last real competitive advantage in the AI age is human connection. The companies that will lead are the ones who use tech to amplify trust, belonging, and psychological safety, not just output.
This means tools that support mental health, foster emotionally intelligent leadership, help managers understand team dynamics, and support real-time, human-centred feedback. Emotional intelligence is no longer a soft skill, it’s survival tech.
Machines will win at speed. Humans win at meaning. Invest accordingly.
Final Thought
Young people aren’t lazy. They’re just allergic to nonsense, and honestly, who can blame them?
They’ve grown up watching systems fail, from education to economics, and they’re not interested in playing along with outdated rules that don’t make sense. What they do want is meaningful work, work that aligns with their personality, reflects their values, and contributes to something real.
And here’s the plot twist: AI might finally be the tool that makes that dream possible.
Not by replacing humans, but by supporting them. By stripping away the busywork, the noise, the bureaucracy, so we can focus on the work that actually matters. The creative, the strategic, the emotionally intelligent, the deeply human.
But here’s the catch: AI can only help us build a better world of work if we stop treating it like a cold, robotic taskmaster... and start using it like a wise, adaptable creative partner.
This isn’t just about faster workflows or cleaner inboxes. It’s about a fundamental shift from standardisation to personalisation, from control to co-creation, from “get the job done” to “grow through the job.”
Because the future of work isn’t just AI-powered - It’s personality-powered. Purpose-driven. And unapologetically human.
Let’s build it that way.


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